It’s ok.

It’s ok

I know your day were filled with thousand things

And replying to me would be the last on the list.



Haha! Hilarious!



I know how your work and other things has distracted you form this one figure

Well I don’t mind for I know it always been like that

When me is no longer around your linger.

I guess the work has finally departed us

But no worries, I will always be here when you reached home and rest

When u finally settle down from your busy day

And no more other ‘to-do-list’ at your concern

No other stuff on your mind but me and our children.

So go head with your work

No worries if the messages from the BBM getting abandoned

Emails in your inbox are forsaken

Even the missed calls are piling up in your Blackberry with out a single return.

It’s ok

For I know it is always back to us

Where you find your tranquil and peace

At the end of the day when your punch card time has already finished

So, worry not, it's ok. -nho

Some 'out-of-sudden' idea inspired by the crazily busy work schedule of my man.

Baby, I know you gonna love it! (Kedua-dua tangan ke bahu sambil mata memandang ke atas) LOL!

Harian Metro Headlines: Bayi 2 Minggu Mati Pecah Kepala Akibat Perbuatan Bapa Sendiri.

Furious! That was my truth feelings upon reading the Metro headlines dated 18 April 2012 when passing through the shop at Wisma Lim Foo Yong after having my lunch today.

Even to imagine a baby crying when getting his first injection wrenched my heart, moreover to imagine how an ‘animal’ could do this to their own enviable infant.

My best guess, either this person is a psychopath or the father is actually the reincarnated evil from Hell. I have some suggestions which I think could be very useful to prevent such stupidity. Those are:-

• When couples attending a pre-marriage training, besides discussing on the role of husband and wife, perhaps the trainer should highlight the serious ongoing marriage issues such violence towards wife and kids, a cheating spouses and thereafter discuss on what trigger those issues and how to tackle them. Also, tell the participants on the reality of marriage after the honeymoon period ends. Real responsibility, real burden and perhaps any doa’ that would help the couple to resolve problems and tighten up their relationship. What matter is not only the wedding ceremony and the akad nikah, but most importantly is how to maintain the ship when the turbulence come and how to stick together through thick and thin for the rest of our life;

• Other than normal physical test, perhaps a mental test should be conducted to see whether the soon to be married couples are mentally fit to build a family and to attend every single issues and stresses in the marriage. Some people might appear healthy and physically fit but we never to assume their level of mental well-being;

• Anger management classes. Most marriage nowadays is taken away by life demand. As the divorce rate is greatly increasing over years, this indicates clear color that some couples find it hard to find their mutual understanding with spouses when conflict hits. Anger management might seen as insignificant, but never doubt its will when the real conflict came into the picture; and

• Allah and family blessing. Never doubt the power of prayer. Pray and seek Allah's blessings in every doings. By seeking it, one will be more rationale in attending hurdles. Well, marriage ain’t a fairy tale where both couple will live happily ever after, after the ceremony happened. It is more than that and it comes with full package. The package of love, hatred, anger, passion, lust and many more. So it takes up lots of prayers, discussions, hugs and off course agreements and papers to be signed before the akad took place J

Well, I am sharing some thoughts and ideas on how the issue could intelligently be tackled. Appreciate, nurture and love our child. Be bless for Allah bestows them as many couples out there who had been married for few years and still yet to receive their bundle of joy from Heaven.

My baby son in his peaceful sleeping.

Afterall, if we are capable enough to make them, so we are definitely capable and sane enough to be responsible towards them. Yang baik dari Allah dan khilaf dari kita sendiri. Wallahualam - nho

It Will Rain – Bruno Mars Lyrics & Listen

It Will Rain – Bruno Mars Lyrics & Listen

My late mom used to have the same worry as Bruno Mars’s girlfriend’s parents had in this song when I first introduced my husband to her 8 years ago. She just being protective over her little girl for she has no other child other than me and I understand her concern of wanting me to marry a great guy who will love and protect me as she did. Now that my mom has gone and leave me with this great guy who adores, loves and pours me with his warm affections as mom did. Thanks darl, hope it will last forever~!

And to Mr. Mars, other than having the same name as my favorite chocolate; I adore your tune. Listen to it. Amazing! -nho

Set Fire To The Rain – Adele Lyrics & Listen

Set Fire To The Rain – Adele Lyrics & Listen

Adele is truly a talented beautiful 'ideal' British woman. I totally fell in love with her graceful yet husky signature voice upon hearing  'Someone Like You' and off course, 'Set Fire to The Rain'. I guess 'Set Fire to The Rain' telling us about a woman who get tired of her man who cheated and played her then decided to get him a lesson but at the same time longing for this man’s love and affection. So do click on the above and enjoy her narrations on this cheating man.

Way to go Adele. You got my vote!-nho

The One That Got Away – Katy Perry Lyrics & Listen

The One That Got Away – Katy Perry Lyrics & Listen

Sometimes they just meant to pass through your life tunnel.
Remember your school heartrobe, your charming football team Capten who dated you back then in high school or even the boy whom you had a crushed on while studying in the college library some years ago?
Well, we couldn't be more bless for they walked away from our life to make a room for the better one to come up, isn't it? So turn the life page and leave the chapter behind because it is no longer relevant. So does the agony.
Here's a song that tells a story. Click, listen and enjoy! :) -nho

Cerita Begitu dan Begini

Kau begitu

Aku begini

Kita berbeza dalam segenap dimensi

Tapi tetap bertemu dalam satu situasi.

Kau tegas kadang-kadang marah sesuka hati

Bila hari kerja mu menimbun dan segala tak menjadi

But, I don’t even care and sometimes truly tak kisah

Sebab kau adalah segala pakar dalam penambat hati.

Ada hari yang mood kau begitu

Aku pulak 'PMS' coming up so mood begini

Bila jumpa abis kita bergaduh and everything fell apart bila kita berkelahi

Tapi yang paling sweet,

Kau seek forgivess dengan masak salmon favoriteku

Yang lazatnya tak terperi.

Memang indah sulam hari sama-sama

Sambil lihat dua monster lasak membesar jadi dewasa

Walaupun kadang-kadang kita tak sependapat dalam segenap segi

Tapi yang paling penting kita tetap share satu persamaan, dan ia pasti

Yang kau sayang aku dan aku sayang kau, and kita ingatkan janji untuk sehidup semati -nho

For my sparing partner for 8 years, Mr. Shahrir Fitri.

Dear Destroyer

Dear destroyer
I know you were hit by the truth
And it bites you viciously like a mad dog
And it damaged your rusty crust
With its jaw called “reality”.

Well you had my chances, attention and almost trust
Somehow it means nothing to you and you threw it to your “negligence” dustbin
Go on, keep dancing to the music of your betrayal sound
Where u are the dark swan

Until one day someone came and kill you with his shot gun.

How amazing you can prompty created a plot

Perhaps when you were little you wanted to be a joker to Lady Camelot

Telling all over the world that other things doesn’t matter

Ironically you actually care and that was why you read

And got taken away with every single word in it
Yup! It is a victory to see, for you even lie to yourself indeed.

Say what u gotta say to convey your deception
Go for it, it doesn’t effect me and my pretty skin.
After what you have done and now I am telling you this 

I neither be sorry nor pity nor guilt over you

For it is priceless

And even your 12 months arrears pay cheque ain't gonna afford the value!

Cruel huh? That’s the words of truth. Sila telan! -nho

The One That Got Away

Summer after high school when we first met
We made out in your Mustang to Radiohead
And on my 18th Birthday
We got matching tattoos

Used to steal your parent's water
And climb to the roof
Talk about the future
Like we had a clue
Never planned that one day
I'd be losing you

In another life
I would be your girl
We'd keep all our promises
Be us against the world

In another life
I would make you stay
So I don't have to say
You were the one that got away
The one that got away

I was June and you were my Johnny Cash
Never one without the other we made a pact
Sometimes when I miss you
I put those record on

Someone said you had your tattoo removed
Saw you downtown singing the Blues
It's time to face the music
I'm no longer you muse

But in another life
I would be your girl
We'd keep all our promises
Be us agianst the world

In another life
I would make you stay
So I don't have to say
You were the one that got away
The one that got away

All this money can't buy me a time machine
Can't replace you with a million rings
I should've told you what you meant to me
'Cause now I pay the price

In another life
I would be your girl
We'd keep all our promises

Be us against the world

In another life
I would make you stay
So I don't have to say
You were the one that got away
The one that got away

The truth, in life some people are just meant to pass over our life tunnel and create a memory which none of us could ever forget. Even how much bitterness or sweetness they left, they still remain as someone who crossed the path so that in the end the good ones can come in and help to wash away all the sadness left behind.

 Afterall, some are worth enough to stay while others are meant to be deleted. Permenantly. - nho
 

Zoey Deschanel; very much resemblance of Katy. I love her hairdo

 

She is sweet like me according to my Mr.! LOL!

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Intersection

Every now and then people made de tour into your life

You met one or two that will touch your heart in some special ways

Some might stay and some might mislaid

But the memory left will never be erased.

Maybe you met with the one that hurt

Leaving you a wound with a rusty dirt

Let the injure be heal and let the lesson reside

Perhaps one day you could be much stronger when the same collide.

Sometimes it is too exhaust to fight the pain

So let the sorrow overwhelm until all are regained

Feel the bitterness feel the grief

For time itself is a trained nurse for every anguish.

All of these are life phases

Junctions and detour in every single path taken

People come and somehow they will go

So that in the end of tunnel we’ll meet the one who swims with our flow.-nho